미안하다, 사랑하다 …

The most useless thing i’ve ever heard …I’m sorry. Like it’s ever going to change something… 

 

 

Being sorry is a free pass to forgive everything. Its also a very lame and lazy excuse, and a proof that its time to grow up ! Being sorry won’t change anything in the past, nor in the future. Thou if something serious has been done already, and cannot be un-done, then being sorry won’t bring any goods. Communication is an important tool, but merely used in this situation.

Whatever happened, happened, and now its too late to change it. What could be useful, would be to work on something that would help things getting better. Watch out, money won’t work either ! Trust and honesty don’t cost a thing and worth more than $. Im not saying that we should look into material gift. But talk to people, explain your reason. Make them understand your situation and your choice. If what we did was really  unforgivable, then try to get your kindness valuable by making the other one happy. Try to please that person while saying sorry and talking to him/her, might help the digestive process of that terrible mistake.

And if you really can’t think about anything, then being sorry is the last option, but make sure it comes with a true smile and a real chocolate ice-cream . Oh and … show that you’ll be more careful next time, that’s how we learn right ? from our own mistakes.

 

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